www.lovesweatandtearsfilm.com
For the Sophisticated Menopausal Woman
A Boutique for the Sophisticated Menopausal Woman
You do not have to be embarrassed to shop for intimate items...
Special Products
Natural Arousal Oil
ON Arousal Oil is one of my best sellers. It is a combination of essential oils and natural products that make the clitoris engorge with blood. There are no hormones in it at all. ON makes the whole area warm and tingly. I was given this product as a gift for giving a lecture several years ago. I was actually kind of annoyed because I was expecting a basket of lotion from Bath and Body Works. I tried it...and I bought 150 bottles for the store the next day. Obviously, this is one of my favorite products ;-)
Lubricants
Wet Platinum Premium Silicone Lubricant is a 100% silicone lubricant for intercourse. Once arthritis, aches, and pains set in as we get older, couples may find it necessary to have intercourse in a hot-tub. Makes sense...right? The buoyancy of the tub lets you get in positions that may be difficult in bed. Water based lubricants dry up quickly and have to be re-applied. Of course, water-based lubricants will just go away in a hot tub. But silicone lubricant will stay right where you but it! It is a non-sticky, smooth as silk lubricant that usually does not need to be re-applied. If used in the shower...be very careful not to slip ;-)
Testimonials
I'll always be thankful for what Dr. Pams products did for my marriage. A little spice to my marriage was just what we were looking for!
– L.S.
I'm old, but I'm not dead. I wish I had known sooner about these products. I thought it was nasty. It is not. They are intimacy aids.
– D.M.
I wish that I had the idea sooner for a safe place for women to shop for intimate products. The association with pornography is understandable, but sad. Women need help as they get older...parts just don't work that well. Lubricants and vibrators, and arousal products help get back that loving feeling...faster.
– Dr. Pamela Gaudry
You are never too old to have fun! We can't move the same way that we used to, and these products help "get the job done!"
– J.C.
All I can say is that I though my Sex Life was over. I came to see Dr. Pam and a part of my life that I feared was gone forever is working fine again! Just do what she says. Protect, use, and enjoy your vagina forever!
– - C.V.
I sent Dr. Pam a bouquet of flowers after my wife went to see her. I don't know what she said, but I'm glad that she said it!
– - R.C.
Featured product
Raya Vaginal Vibrator by Intimina
$ 39.95 $ 46.95
Raya Vaginal Vibrator
This is Dr. Pam's #1 recommended vibrator to start women out with vaginal physical therapy.
What?
Yes, I said it. This is not just about pleasure...but that is a good reason to use a vibrator, too. I recommend vibrators for physical therapy. If you don't use your vagina...you lose it!
I recommend vaginal vibrators to maintain the width and length of the vagina. This is not pornography, and I am not promoting illicit behavior. Your vagina will shrink after menopause, and if you do not take care of 'her' appropriately, she will dry up and get too small to have intercourse. You must do something to 'keep her open' if you want to continue to be able to have sexual intercourse. When you do not use an organ, it loses its blood supply and shrinks. I can't tell you how many women come into my office in their 60's and say, "I got a boyfriend...he can't get the tip in, and I need you to fix it!" Well, I can fix it, but it will take some work on your part. You have to work her out!
Vaginal Vibrators
So...I recommend vaginal vibrators for physical therapy. Bonus: they can be used for clitoral or G-spot stimulation and help you have an orgasm! Women need to keep their vaginas stretched out in width and length after menopause – especially if you are not sexually active. Many women who do not have a partner are masturbating by stimulating the clitoris either with their fingers or a clitoral vibrator. They do not think about stretching out the vagina and promoting blood flow to the area. Unfortunately, the vagina will shrink in diameter and in length after menopause without use. For physical therapy, you can put the vibrator in the vagina as deep as possible for 15 to 30 minutes as often as you would like. This will help increase the blood flow to the area. The vibrator can be incorporated into your love-making. For instance, if you use the vibrator on your clitoris to have an orgasm first, then it will increase blood flow to the area and help you to lubricate and relax. You (or your husband) can stretch out the vaginal opening before penile penetration so that he is not the one stretching you out. You do not want to associate the pain with him.
Raya is a naturally-curved personal massager that offers the versatility of internal and external stimulation. Raya is completely waterproof and can be used in the tub or shower. This beautifully curved and amazingly smooth silicone vibrator has easy to use controls and near-silent vibrations. There are 6 rhythmic modes with 16 speeds to suit your preferences and mood. One end is slightly wider than the other. It is battery operated (which are not included in the price).
Unfortunately, due to state laws, vibrators cannot be returned. You must be 18 years old to purchase these items.
Relax....
Why does Dr. Gaudry feel so strongly about taking care of women?
A passionate explanation of why this OB/GYN decided to pursue a career in medicine.